Awakening to Self: A Dyad & IFS Intensive Retreat

With Sarah Dekker (Facilitator) and Nicholas Burnand (Facilitator)

February 5 - 11, 2027

Book now and get €150.00 off listed prices. Offer valid until Aug 31, 2026.

Date and Time Details: Retreat starts at 6pm on Friday 5 February 2027 and ends at 5pm onThursday 11 February 2027 Note: An optional extra integration night (Thursday) is available for €120 if you’d like a more spacious departure.

Location: Chateau Frandeux

Address: Rue des Pèlerins 4, Mont-Gauthier 5580 Rochefort, Belgium

Contact: Sarah Dekker
sarah@compassionate-self.com
+32 47 075 0321

  • Premium Single Room (Private Bathroom) – €1,950.00
  • Standard Single (Shared Bathroom) – €1,800.00
  • Double Room - Ensuite (Couples/friends) – €1,758.00
  • Double Shared (Communal bathroom) – €1,692.00
  • Twin room - Ensuite (Shared between two) – €1,722.00
  • Twin Room (Shared communal bathroom) – €1,650.00
  • Single Use Double Room – €2,202.00

Many people who discover Internal Family Systems (IFS) experience a profound shift in how they relate to their inner world. And yet, much of this work happens quietly and alone — in therapy rooms, in personal practice, in the privacy of our inner landscape.

Over time, a different kind of longing can emerge: for space, for time, and for the depth of this work to unfold more fully in the presence of others.

Awakening to Self is a carefully held intensive designed to support the gentle shift from insight into embodied, relational presence.

By weaving together the depth of Dyad meditation with the clarity and compassion of Internal Family Systems (IFS), we create a structured and supportive environment where Self-energy can become more accessible — both within yourself and in connection with others.

🧭 Why Dyads & IFS?

In our years of facilitating both dyad intensives and IFS work, we have seen how naturally these approaches complement one another.

  • Dyads offer a precise relational mirror

  • IFS offers a compassionate inner map

  • Together they support deeper unblending and integration

Many IFS practitioners find that dyads help Self-energy become more embodied and relational, rather than remaining primarily an internal experience.

✨ What the retreat includes

  • Extended guided dyad meditation practice

  • IFS-informed teachings and processes

  • Structured partner and small-group exploration

  • Periods of silence and integration

  • Gentle embodiment and movement sessions

  • Optional trauma-sensitive breathwork

  • Ongoing nervous-system-aware facilitation

The days follow a steady and supportive rhythm, balancing depth practice with spacious integration time.

👥 Who this retreat is for

This retreat tends to serve people who:

  • Have experience with IFS, parts work, NVC, or meditation

  • Are IFS practitioners or IFS-curious

  • Long to embody Self-energy more consistently

  • Value depth, structure, and emotional safety

  • Are comfortable in an immersive retreat environment

You do not need prior dyad experience.

🏡 Venue

Château Frandeux is nestled on the edge of the Belgian Ardennes, beside a peaceful lake and surrounded by forest. Accommodation is in simple and comfortable rooms within the château, with our main practice hall located in the adjacent building.

Participants are served nourishing home-style vegetarian meals throughout the retreat. On selected evenings, the sauna is available, with the lake nearby for those who enjoy a refreshing dip.

📅 Retreat Details

Dates: February 5–11, 2027
Location: Château Frandeux, Belgium
Group size: Limited to maintain depth and safety

Application required
We use a short application process to help ensure a well-matched group.

If you feel the quiet pull toward deepening your IFS work in relational presence, you are warmly welcome to apply.

About the Leaders

Sarah Dekker (Facilitator)

Sarah Dekker is a Certified Nonviolent Communication (NVC) trainer, Internal Family Systems (IFS Level 3) practitioner, therapeutic coach, and retreat facilitator. For more than two decades, her work has been devoted to supporting people in meeting themselves and others with greater compassion, honesty, and presence. Her approach integrates NVC and IFS with embodied and relational […]

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Nicholas Burnand (Facilitator)

Nic Burnand was born in South Africa and, after many years of travelling and exploring different cultures, now lives in the north of Belgium. For many years he has been accompanying individuals and groups in depth-oriented inner work and transformational retreat spaces. His approach is grounded in a deep respect for the inner system and […]

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